Sorry..I haven't been on the computer in a few days. True did get spayed and it went well except for the fact she developed ANOTHER bladder infection afterwards. Her ear is due from airborne allergies (benadryl 2x/day). My vet took her off the steriods. My kitty, Trixie, is still very needy but doing so much better. She is trying to love up to True (slowly). My parents have good and bad moments. My mom is confined to the house(dr. cracked her bone) b/c she had a total hip replacement when Dakota died. Unlike us, she cannot keep busy so things will stay off of her mind. My parents (myself included) loved Dakota tons...and time is slowly making things better (well....God is making it better). I ordered them a memorial for their house. I will send you a picture of it...it was very cute! Thanks for your prayers. It is amazing that we have never met...but your prayers, thoughts, and wishes have brought us through some difficult struggles! THANK YOU 