And I have to disagree,with telling a child that a dog bites.I see it time and again here,especially so with black families that have children.That may sound terrible to say,but alot of black families condition thier children,that EVERY dog is a mean dog,and it bites.
We have taken Earnhardt since a very young age,and also the two shelties out in public,in very populated places.This includes shopping stores,grocery,flea markets.I cannot tell you how many times we have encountered a black family,with young children that will go out of thier way,to a farther entrance to avoid Earnhardt especially.And usually always muttering something rude,like "look at that big mean dog,no you can't go near it".And they say it loud enough that I can hear it. I ask myself..Why?
In the may times,we have been approached by a young child,and most often it is a white family,I offer them(or the child) a treat,and I tell them Earnhardt is very friendly.Why on earth would I have him in a public place if he was mean for heavens sake.I have more sense than that.
So the visit proceeds,with the child or adult offering a treat or two,and Earnhardt always is a gentleman.He always lays down,and the child is allowed to pet him.I do not let them touch his head,I tell them it is much better to offer the treat with the hand opened,and as you are feeding him,just stroke him gently under his chin.And talk to him.In minutes,if the parent is patient,and sometimes they are not,and will wisk the child to be on thier way,but other times,it is a nice visit,and they are having a great time.
Yes,Earnhardt is big,but not in the least way mean or vicious.I just think it is poor judgement to tell a child that a dog bites.
My daughter in law,grew up without a pet in the family.She never knew what having a pet would be like until she married Eric.And to be honest,she did not know how to even act around a dog or a cat.
But after a year of being married to Eric,they brought home thier first pet.Lynn will tell you today,that she feels she missed out on alot,not having a dog,or a pet.And her parents just instilled the thought that dogs in particular were mean.To me thats a shame.To deny a child the love,or the capabilities to even interact with a dog or cat.
As far as Trapp,he is not shy one bit upon being introduced to a stranger.Jasper will shy away a bit at first,but always in a few minutes is walking towards the stranger or child.It just takes a little bit more convincing on my part.
Sorry for the rant,but it struck a cord with me,as I see this behavior with parents way more than I really care to.