Hey walloongirl, I had the same problem when I first used one. And working as a groomers assistant, thats a real problem. Try holding it lightly (dont grip it) and put one hand under your dogs stomach for support and then glide it over his coat applying firm but gentle pressure. Dont push it in to his coat and dont spend all day brushing, I've seen people bald a dog with this tool. Not very pretty! Good luck

