How to help our dog relax and enjoy?

wendystation

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My spouse and I purchased a 4-year old sheltie on a "previous show dog, now pet-only" contract from a breeder. A number of issues have come up, and I'd appreciate your opinions.

The breeder did advise in advance that the dog's voice had been softened... she has this done to all of her shelties. On our first visit to our vet we were told that the unfortunate style of surgery had resulted in laryngeal paralysis, which could cause a serious breathing problem now or in the future.

The breeder advised us that this dog was "in most of the day but each of her dogs were given 1 hour daily for a run in the outdoor kennel." We didn't think much of this until the first time we tried to take this dog for a walk in the rain. He seemed quite frightened about the wet. We are starting to realize that he spent probably most of his hours in an indoor kennel.

The vet was also concerned that the rear teeth had not been cleaned; also about the wear on the dog's teeth; one had to be removed. The vet advised that this is typical of dogs who spend most of their time "boxed up" and gnaw on the wooden container.

We're now attending dog obedience classes; both the dog and we new owners have previous experience, but we thought this would be beneficial for us to learn to communicate with each other. The teacher noted that the dog has a scar over one eye which still has colour, indicating to the teacher that this injury probably happened within the past 12-18 months.

This dog will NOT take a treat from our hand. Ever. He will take the treat if we drop it on the floor, and he has recently started standing beside my chair and accepting pats to his chest... but will not accept food from my hand.

This dog has been with us since mid August. He's recently started to meet me with joy each morning as I swing out of bed, and wait patiently for me to take him downstairs for a morning snack. He has recently started "bowing" by lowering his front body to his elbows, then jumping and dashing with joy when I sit on the floor and dance with him. He seems rather surprised to be playing with a human. My spouse walks the dog three times a day. He tested recently during a walk, and released the dog from his leash... and the dog continued to our home, not "making a run for it" but continuing to walk beside my husband. Indoors, the dog comes when he's called perhaps 25% of the time.

At the moment, the dog lays behind my chair as my spouse and I watch tv. This has just started in the past day or two... previously he would go lay in the dark corner of the house, unless we went and brought him to the tv area, then kept him on a leash, here.

I understand that male dogs, in particular, can take longer in adapting to a new household. I also understand that our dog's progress really shouldn't be measured until around the 6 month stage of his being a member of our family.

I'm particularly concerned about the head scar; would like your opinion on contacting the party from whom we purchased the dog, to have this explained?

Does anyone have suggestions or feedback on helping this new member of our family relax and enjoy his new lifestyle?
 
Wow - what a story. Sounds like he was in a kennel all the time.

When I got my Hamish from my sister, he was a show dog - a Canadian Champion. He was crated for a lot of the time when they were out, in a small carrier type.

However - he had no trouble at all adapting to our household and freedom.

It sounds like socialization was not a key part of his upbringing. Keep doing what you are doing - it sounds like it is working. Tiny steps add up to big steps.

Keep us updated and we would love to see pix of him.

I would be asking for vet records too.
 
It sounds to me as if this little one is just now learning about the joy of life. It will take time and patience, but you're giving this Sheltie a real life -- bless you!
 
Sounds like you are on track and I would just keep doing what you are (adapting it as you see the need). The scar could be a ton but I don't see any reason to be concerned as it is healed. The behind the chair thing means he thinks you are his now :yes: Sca stays behind me a ton. If I wonder where he went off to that is the first place I look (and frequently he is there relaxing) He is just monitoring his herd.
 
You may have a long road ahead of you but you're well on the right track. Just keep doing what you're doing, be patient and keep up with the obedience classes. He'll continue to slowly come around.

That greeting bow is a REALLY good thing. In terms of dog language, it means I REALLY like/love you. :smile2:

We adopted our rescue almost a year ago. He was not abused and did not come from a breeder, but came from a family who lived in an apartment and did not socialize or exercise him. So essentially he spent the first year and a half in a box too. Its taken a year (and medication in his case due to severe noise sensitivity/anxiety) but he's now learned to enjoy life and be a sheltie.

In Toby's case, he always loved people and dogs, but the world was a REALLY scary place and he had little to no experience with things like snow, streams/lakes or off leash hikes. A few months ago Toby wouldn't even walk in water that wasn't a puddle, but now he not only runs in it, but he also plays in it, pawing, dunking his muzzle and even lying down to cool himself off. Its been such a joy to watch him explore the world.

It takes time, patience and love, but they can and will come around eventually. :smile2: Give yourself a pat on the back that he's doing so well after such a short time and keep up the good work! :smile2:
 
Thank you...thank you! Your words of reassurance are so appreciated.

Does anyone have any opinion as to why this Sheltie won't take food from our hand when offered? Is that an aspect of training for show-dogs?
 
Thank you...thank you! Your words of reassurance are so appreciated.

Does anyone have any opinion as to why this Sheltie won't take food from our hand when offered? Is that an aspect of training for show-dogs?

It could be that she's still uncomfortable about taking it from your hand. If thats the case she'll come around in time. My shelties often wont take treats from stranger's hands.

Or maybe she just prefers picking them up off the floor, I've heard of that too.
 
I believe that some people do train their dogs not to take food from people's hands. This could be why.
 
Thank you...thank you! Your words of reassurance are so appreciated.

Does anyone have any opinion as to why this Sheltie won't take food from our hand when offered? Is that an aspect of training for show-dogs?

What kind of treat are you offering? I would try something REALLY yummy to start him off. My pups go nuts over dehydrated liver treats. They also like those natural balance sausage rolls. I cut them up into treat size.
 
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