How to help the grieving process

Sus2011ie

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Hi - I am sorry if this is a repeat, but I checked through several pages, and couldn't really see this topic. Still trying to navigate my way around as only been a member for a day. I am not exactly good with computers either.

Anyway................to the topic. I just had a sheltie pass away, and the other two keep going to the door when they hear a noise, looking for him. Moppet was with him his entire 8 years of life, so is missing him more. She also lost her husband 2 years ago, so the 2 guys she knew so well are gone. She seems like she is depressed as well. She just sits with her back to me. I was unable to bring Speckle's body home, as we do not own a farm to bury him on. I think this would have helped. As far as the other dogs know, Speckle just disappeared, and they think he will come back from wherever he went to. How can I help my 2 Shelties grieve? I would really appreciate any feedback you can give. Thank you. Susan
 
My heart goes out to you and your furkids. it's so hard because you just can't explain it. I recommend keeping to your routine, but lavishing loads of affection. They may act out a bit -- my friend just lost her Sheltie, and the Sheltie/Corgi "brother" had a few really panicked days. Time really does heal. :sadsmile:
 
Thank you Chris! My Sonny and Speckle would tear out our backyard to the back fence, barking all of the way. Today, because Sonny didn't have Speckle, he just stopped halfway. I have put a homeopathic remedy in their water, which has a calming effect. Hopefully it will work. I will try to stick to their routine. Susan
 
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