Is a Sheltie right for me?

Are Shelties:
Good with other dogs or household pets if socialized properly? Yes they are
Known to be same sex aggressive? None of mine have ever shown same sex aggression and I've been around 26 or more shelties.
Good with kids? My parents bred shelties when I wasn't even born. Even before my oldest brother. Every sheltie of theirs were around all three of us from birth to present. There were some issues, like the one was older and I was 3... He didn't like his paws stepped on or he'd nip me. I learned. It never hurt hurt, but it was a learning process.

Do Shelties:
In general, require a LOT of exercise? Honestly, no they don't. My shelties are more than fine with just running outside in the backyard and barking at cars for 30 minutes- an hour a day. They don't even get that sometimes though. My current shelties since I live in an apartment get an hour of exercise outside (agility) a week. We do about 15 minute walks 3-5 times a week. They do get pottied on leash though and walk prob 10-15 mins each time pottied. Exercising can also be done in the house, playing fetch, frisbee etc still counts as exercise.

Like water? This depends on the dog. I have had shelties that LOVE to play in the water. My female currently HATES water. She won't even go to the bathroom if her paws are going to get wet. My male pup loves water, he'll purposely jump in puddles if it's raining or just rained. He also loves the beach.
Other:
Barking: It depends. Shelties are really good guard dogs and want you to know if they hear a sound (could be door bell, car door shutting, foot steps, other animals) Others don't bark at all. Also some will bark if they're in a crate but can hear you.

How much grooming do they REALLY require? I brush my dogs maybe once a week if that. Sometimes I only brush them once a month. If they're blowing coat (which my female is now) I brush them every other day or once a week. It all depends on how much time I have

I live in an environment that is warm to hot most of the year. Is it selfish to a Sheltie to be subjected to heat with such a heavy/long coat? I currently live in NC. The coldest it gets is 35 and that's rare. Both of mine have seen 100 degrees here this summer with no issues. They do get hot easy so don't go on walks with them in the dead heat hours. Go in the mornings or evenings when it's colder. As long as they're not out running around when its 90 and up, they will be fine. My mom actually didn't want me to get a tri sheltie because he'd get hot quickly. Their coats absorb the heat. Blue Merles reflect the heat. I got a tri anyways and he was fine in the heat. He did though get hot easily, but like I said, we didn't keep ours outside other than to go potty.

I love Velcro dogs. I am very much looking for a family dog that is satisfied just being a pet. No showing, no trials or anything. I mean agility is attractive to me, however, I would not want to buy a dog for sport and then not do it. I want a dog that is happy to see us when we come home, eager to go on a walk, or a quick run, up for a game of tug or fetch, but has no problem curling up with us on the couch. We travel, and I like the more convenient size of a Sheltie versus other breeds we were looking at. I had a friend with one as a kid, and from what I remember she was just the sweetest little dog. She's the reason I am asking if they would fit our lifestyle.
This describes a sheltie perfectly. They'll play when you want to play and cuddle when you want to cuddle. That being said, not all shelties are lovers and want to cuddle. My pup will only cuddle with me if my fiance isn't around. My female cuddles with me all the time. Both are very affectionate and love to play. I have never met a sheltie that wasn't affectionate and into playing. Though, there are shelties that don't like to play.
 
I find Shelties to be best with other dogs of the same play style and size. Shelties aren't the easiest, as with other herding breeds they like to control motion and therefore are often the fun police if there are more dogs around. Don't seem to care if they are same sex or not.

Personally, I wouldn't have a Sheltie or a herding breed around toddlers. That requires a whole lot of management that I wouldn't end up having the patience for...

Shelties DO need a lot of stimulation, doesn't mean you have to run them for hours on end, but they do need a fair amount of social, mental AND physical activity to fitfully sleep the rest of the day. Just a few walks around the blocks a week don't cut it, imo

Mine love the water, I call them duck Shelties, Toffee loves to go in to his shoulders only, Spruce loves to swim and dive in... I think I am going to think about making him a dock dog, lol. They both are avid wave herders and can't get enough of beaches and waves and sand or mud...

I find them more sensitive and responsive than an Aussie, less demanding in your face. Mine can hang out for hours if I work from home or having a lazy, rainy day etc and snuggle, they both love their cuddles, but aren't hanging off me, they can entertain themselves which make watching them a joy and always good for a laugh! But try that for two days and they have cabin fever, and out I go with ball and Frisbees lol
 
...Personally, I wouldn't have a Sheltie or a herding breed around toddlers. That requires a whole lot of management that I wouldn't end up having the patience for...

I had the lovely experience of having two toddlers (3 years apart) around my previous Sheltie and I found it one of the most rewarding times in my life (and theirs). You are correct however, about the vast strain on your management skills. I made every attempt to never allow the dog to be unsupervised with the babies. Interestingly enough, it was more difficult to control the babies than it was our pup. I also very tightly controlled their interaction with him. If you choose to allow this interaction, it is a big responsibility.
 
I had the lovely experience of having two toddlers (3 years apart) around my previous Sheltie and I found it one of the most rewarding times in my life (and theirs). You are correct however, about the vast strain on your management skills. I made every attempt to never allow the dog to be unsupervised with the babies. Interestingly enough, it was more difficult to control the babies than it was our pup. I also very tightly controlled their interaction with him. If you choose to allow this interaction, it is a big responsibility.

lol, you brave, brave man :D (I mean TWO toddlers, haha)
Of course I meant managing the kids, not the dogs LOL :lol::razz:
I have seen shelties being tender and sweet with kids, but I know MY limitations lol
 
lol, you brave, brave man :D (I mean TWO toddlers, haha)
Of course I meant managing the kids, not the dogs LOL :lol::razz:

Had it not been for the 3 yr. space between them, I would not have survived. :gaah Daughter #1 was always exiting a difficult time when baby girl #2 entered that same phase. Being a man outnumbered by a wife and two girls in the house at the same time, having my puppy boy was really a welcome respite.

In all seriousness, had I known then what I know now, I (like you mentioned) would probably have wanted to wait to get the dog until the girls were through the toddler stages. As it worked out, our plan to have children was somewhat slower developing than expected, so I opted to get my dog. A soon as we got the pup, the kids started coming. Go figure! I'm glad I did get the dog, however. The girls and the dog were great together, even though there were bumps and concerns along the way.
 
My sister was 4 and my brother was 2 when we got my first sheltie, Jasmine. So I don't remember there being issues with my brother and Jasmine. She was pretty attached to me (8 at the time) and did like to herd all of us kids, but it was never a problem and it was a way to get energy out of us AND the dog lol. We had issues when my brother got older and wanted to play a little rough with Jasmine. That didn't go over well... so we got him a border collie. Hyper active boy + hyper active border collie = harmony in our household.
 
Like others said, it depends on the dog.

I have one who hates children with every fiber of his being (and has since I got him at 8 weeks old), is an annoyance barker, needs constant entertainment and mental stimulation... The word to best describe him is obnoxious. And don't think that will go away with age... He's 8.

My one year old pup barks occasionally (but LOUD), loves everyone, and while she has puppy enthusiasm and energy, she likes to settle on the couch with her people at the end of the day.

They both get daily walks (about a mile) and the pup gets a few short sessions of agility training a day.
 
Hi all. I'm a brand new member. I've been lurking and reading for a few weeks now and am hoping to get some more information on the breed. I'm not looking to buy quite yet, but within the next year for sure. I just want this time so I can research breeders if it seems like a good fit for me. I'm not sure that they are a 100% fit. Or even at all.

Can you please tell me more infornation?

Are Shelties:
Good with other dogs or household pets if socialized properly? I would say they were, mine seems to like other dogs and he just adores our kitty.
Known to be same sex aggressive? I do not think so.
Good with kids? I don't have kids yet, but would not rule it out within the next 5 years. I do not have kids, but when Laddie sees one, he does not run, however, if they rush at him, he does not like it and he will run away. He seems to like adults better.


Do Shelties:
In general, require a LOT of exercise? My significant other likes Aussies but, I know us and the amount of exercise an Aussie requires would be too much. I'm looking for a breed with a good off switch inside but is good with maybe a 30 minute game in the backyard, plus unlimited time in the backyard if desired, and a couple short to medium walks a day (morning and evening). I would not be happy with a dog that I have to run 5 miles a day with, and constantly provide mental stimulation or it would go nuts. I'm all for play, wrestling, buying Kong's to fill time, or those little puzzle boxes, but I don't want a dog smarter than me, if that makes sense. Well, if I do not exercise mine, he gets so hyper he is hard to handle. Sadly, I have health issues with my back and neck, this prevents me from doing a lot of exercise at times, so, it is my fault that he is not as calm as he should be. I would say, from what I have seen, that YES, they need a lot of exercise.

Like water? Sometimes we go out on the boat and it would be nice to have a dog that can enjoy the water with us. Laddie does NOT like the beach, we took him last week and he showed no interest and when Steve walked him near the water, he did not want to go near it.


Other:
I work at home. Sometimes my work requires that I make or receive calls. I know Shelties are notorious for barking. How often do they bark, are they problem barkers or are they just warning barkers (I.e. heard a noise etc). YES, or at least mine is. I mean, just one little knock and we are off to the races, I do not know how to stop this either. He "warn barks" and also "bark" barks.

How much grooming do they REALLY require? Is this a breed that requires daily brushing or can I get away with brushing once a week and a professional groom maybe every 2-3 months or longer? I brush Laddie once a day, sometimes less, I have not taken him to a professional groomer, I don't think the groomers in New Zealand do them, but then again, I have not checked.

I live in an environment that is warm to hot most of the year. Is it selfish to a Sheltie to be subjected to heat with such a heavy/long coat? The dog would be an indoor dog but its a concern of my significant other that it is too hot here for a long coated dog for the times we do go outside. I lived in a very warm climate with my first sheltie, it did not bother him a bit, Laddie has not experienced a summer yet, but he will soon, we are heading into it now.

I love Velcro dogs. I am very much looking for a family dog that is satisfied just being a pet. No showing, no trials or anything. I mean agility is attractive to me, however, I would not want to buy a dog for sport and then not do it. I want a dog that is happy to see us when we come home, eager to go on a walk, or a quick run, up for a game of tug or fetch, but has no problem curling up with us on the couch. We travel, and I like the more convenient size of a Sheltie versus other breeds we were looking at. I had a friend with one as a kid, and from what I remember she was just the sweetest little dog. She's the reason I am asking if they would fit our lifestyle.I would say that a Sheltie would fit the bill. Laddie is not a Velcro dog, I wish he was more of one, but, he does like to be near us, is happy to see us when we come home, and loves walks or play. He DOES love the couch, which is fine by me.[/QUOTE]

I hope this helps, my answers are just my experience, I am sure that every owner will have different opinions and replies. Good luck.
 
Just wanted to update this thread. After discussing it, we've come to the decision that the breed we're going to adopt/purchase is......

The Sheltie :)

This thread was the most helpful. After sitting down and talking about the four breeds we liked, it was this thread that helped cement our decision. The Sheltie seems like a perfect combination of what we were looking for.
 
Congrats on your choice - shelties are so sweet I am sure you will be happy with your newest family member.
 
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