Missing my beautiful best friend

Thank you all for your kind and wise advise about bringing another Sheltie home. It has been one week since my sweet Seba crossed the Bridge and he has done his best to consume all of my thoughts and memories of him only! I can feel his little spirit with me and this just goes to show how powerful this spirit is... I'd like to think he enjoyed his life with me, the walks, the chases in the back yard...the bits of my toast and many other delectables he so patiently waited by my side on the couch for...his presence was all I needed and mine all he needed. Now "Sebas House" is very quiet, except for the thumping and scuffing around of my 3 kitties, the comforting cooing of my doves and chirpings of my lovebird and cockatiel. So, yes you are right, I will know when it's time to let another fur-baby into my heart. Sweet Seba will let me know~
Thanks again for listening to me....

:hugs
 
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss of Seba; it is one of the most painful things to go through. Scout passed suddenly last August (she was only 5 years old) and I was in a terribly depressed state. Long story short, about 2 months later we had Jagger. He is related to Scout (on his dad's side) and is totally different from her in pretty much every way. I knew she wouldn't want me to stay so sad and he has been a remedy for sure, making me laugh all the time. Like everyone said, you'll know when it's time ... and there is no right or wrong decision.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. :( Such a difficult thing to do and it never gets easier.

As for adopting, just like everyone else said, it's different for everyone. Whatever feels right for you. We had to put our Dakota down a few years ago - he was our only dog so his absence was just so overwhelming. The routine just hit a complete halt, and it was horrible (we also lost him very suddenly which gave us little time to prepare). In our case, we had a new dog literally a week later. But other people can't move on that fast, some can't even fathom another dog of the same breed. We have two shelties now, though, and are very happy with both of them. I can't imagine the next time we will have to go through it again, though.

Take care... thinking of you and sending hugs your way,
Kerri
 
When I lost a favorite pet I went about a month and couldnt take the quiet anymore. I actually went to vegas for a week just so I wasn't in the house for a week. I so needed a break, my heart was broken. I ended up with another pet and I always tell her because I loved my little girl so much, I had so much love to still give and it was her turn now to share it. They were not in any way alike oh so different and that helped me not compare so much. I also have her ashes in an urn and know she is with me always.
I am sorry you lost your baby, they do leave paw prints on our hearts.
 
I have two little dogs in my backyard pet cemetery. The first was Drake, a jaunty little Schipperke that my daughter took from his owner back in 2011; an absolute nightmare of a dog until she patiently trained him to the point where he was a delight to have around. Alas, being a Schipperke, he got distracted one day and went out into the street without looking. My daughter had become very attached to him, and since she was renting at the time we offered to bury his remains in our back yard.

The second was my little Boo-Boo, a half-sheltie, half golden lab mix, with the best qualities of the Sheltie breed and none of the questionable ones. Gentle as a kitten and smarter than a whip; the only dog I've ever seen who could get himself unwound from a pole by going repeatedly in the opposite direction. Late in 2011 we discovered he had a tumor on his spleen, and thought we would have to put him to sleep, but my wife would have none of it, and nursed him back to health. He lived another year in very good spirits and good condition. When the end came he laid down and wouldn't get up; I carried him to his favorite place in the bedroom and he died an hour later.

I'm not overly sentimental about animals, but I can tell you that we had real funerals for those dogs; we all chipped in to dig the little graves, and words were spoken through real tears and genuine sobs. Yes, they're only animals, but they do us so much good by softening the worst parts of our nature. In a sense they are to us what we are to Almighty God.
 
Mom just had her Miki dog put down in November, and 26 hrs later had a new puppy. This was the best thing for her and us. We still have thoughts of Miki, but a new puppy sure takes the emptiness away. A new dog wouldent be the old dog, but the attention it needs sure takes the hurt off.
 
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