Separation Anxiety

Laurelin

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This is about my papillon girl. I've asked the all breed board, but my posts on her SA typically go unanswered. I've asked the pap list serve and was told I needed to medicate her, which I really don't want to do. So in a last attempt to hear from people's experiences, I figured it wouldn't hurt to ask here.

Summer has separation anxiety (obviously). She's not the worst case I've heard of by a long shot, she's not destructive, she doesn't chew or destroy things. However, she will bark and cry while she's alone, she will try to claw her way through a door or a crate, she'll start shaking when I'm getting ready to leave, etc. I've tried multiple things with little success. Right now I'm living with my father and his dogs and she seems to be doing a lot better being left with another dog in the house instead of being alone. When I go back to school, though, it'll just be me and her again. I'm most likely getting another dog for other reasons but I know not to count on that alleviating everything. Even with the other dogs she will still bark when I get home, but a lot less. Just a few barks and that's it. It wouldn't be a big problem if we weren't in an apartment next year. She will also panic whenever I close a door between us. She has to be in the room with me or another person.

I've tried desensitizing her to my leaving procedure. Whenever I touch my backpack to go to class she panics. Class is about the only place I go that she isn't allowed to go. When she's crated, it seems worse. She hides and refuses to go in her crate so I've stopped using that. She knows a no bark now somewhat but still barks about a minute when I get home and goes crazy zooming around the house. I come in and ignore her until she settles down. She won't play with toys so I leave chews for her and I leave the tv on. She's exercised a lot multiple times a day, she is very bright and very high energy. I even tried DAP but didn't notice a thing.

Any ideas on what else to try?

Also, if you have tried medicating for SA, how serious was your dog's case? What does your dog take and how does it work? Maybe I'm overreacting about the medication thing but I imagine my little spitfire becoming zombie dog. It just doesn't seem bad enough to me to need such a drastic solution...

Any insight at all would be really really appreciated.
 
I sadly have a dog who is now 2½ and still has SA, he cant even cope with me popping upstairs but with my OH he is 10x worse, (Jake just bounces around waiting for his Kong :lol:)

These are two articles they may help.
http://www.deesdogs.com/documents/teachingyourdogtostayhomealone.pdf
http://www.deesdogs.com/documents/separationanxiety.pdf

I have tried most things but I have just come to the conclusion it is something I will have to live with, but then Dante was diagnosed from early age as being a very severe form of SA (he did chew, urinate/defacte, destroy my whole kitchen), he also still trembles, pants, drools and eyes bulge and very vocal at the sight of us getting ready to leave, but he has stopped the destruction.

I have found over time ignoring him when I got in did work, even now he is quiet with me (although he is obviously stressed), but if you utter a word to him he will start being vocal.

We were recommended medication, Clomicalm I think it was but I didnt like the side-effects so we never took that route, plus it worked out very pricey.
 
Another thing how long did you try the DAP for? It took about 4 weeks to have an effect with Dante (this was the diffuser type)
 
I'm no expert because I've been fortunate that none of my pups have really suffered from it.

But it does beg the question as to why some pups have it and others do not.

Can you provide abit of background as to how old is the pup, how long you've had her, was this always an issue, what have your tried so far, do you crate, what other behaviours that might be related, etc.

Cheers
barb
 
Patricia McConnell did a short, easy to read booklet called "I'll be home soon" that is worth getting hold of.

When I go out I get huge tantrums unless I give my dogs a distraction. Their favourite is the puppy treasure hunt. I hide bits of treats and kibble around the house (or yard) and give them a "ready, set, go" they completely ignore me as I leave (which is actually more daunting for me). Since i have been doing the treasure hunt I think they look forward to me leaving!:lol:

Other tactics I used were a bone, rawhide chew (one that takes a while), and a treat bottle (water bottle with holes cut in it - I put kibble in and the dogs can push it around to get the treats out).

Its all about distracting the dogs. Instead of kibble for breakfast use their morning kibble as 'treats' they can have when you leave. They only need distractions for enough time to forget you are gone - 15-30min. Altho mine will hunt for 'treasure' for up to an hour.

I saw a vet behaviourist who said if they arent actually distructing it isnt true anxiety they just really miss me (eg have separation issues) and this is good because it is easier to deal with (a dog with anxiety requires a lot more work). I think I will always have to distract them as I leave but it works.
 
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Layla has no separation anxiety -- but she does have a bad case of, "Now watch me punish you for leaving me by ignoring you until you play bunny with me until your arm falls off." :lol:
 
Layla has no separation anxiety -- but she does have a bad case of, "Now watch me punish you for leaving me by ignoring you until you play bunny with me until your arm falls off." :lol:

Oh, yes! I know this syndrome! It must be unique to the breed! :biggrin2:
 
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