The new guy has arrived

afiddler

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Lady, my 14 month old sable sheltie now has a new baby brother, 10 week old Sparky. He is actually her real half-brother, as they come from the same dad.

He is the sweetest boy. He seems not as agressive a chewer as Lady was. He also very playful.

Lady and I picked him up early yesterday afternoon. We live closeby the breeder so it was not a long ride home.

Lady was not thrilled to have him here. She mostly ignored him except when he poked his nose into her business. She poked him back a few times. I could see the first time that she was snarling, then she went for him. I was not sure whether this was a correct action on her part or not. I could not tell that he was doing anything other than just sniffing around her. He did not seem injured, although he yelped every time she went for him. How do I tell if these corrections are within the bounds of appropriate behavior? Can something that starts out okay escalate into something more serious? I am just not sure whether I am butting in or acting appropriately myself in protecting a new member of my pack. The last time she went for him at the end of the evening I told her to leave him alone and she knows when I am serious. He's on the small side, so she's a lot bigger and stronger with adult teeth. I don't want him to be hurt because I didn't intercede at the right time.

Lady goes to daycare regularly. I asked one of her providers today whether she thought Lady was acting inappropriately toward him. The response was no. She has never acted inappropriately toward another dog, including many puppies that she's played with. She feels Lady is a model of appropriate canine behavior. In this case, I am pushing Lady's envelope bringing a new puppy home. Could this bring out the worst in her or am I overreacting?

Right now Sparky is fast asleep at my feet. He was barking in his sleep a little while ago. I've never heard that before! It was very cute, and he's a wonderful little boy. I promise pictures will be forthcoming.
 
Congrats on the new addition !

They'll do just fine. You'll have to monitor them for awhile to make certain Lady is not too jealous.:uhoh: But where she is around other animals on a daily basis it should work out well. Just have to remember this one comes home with her.:lol:
 
Congrats on your new puppy!

I don't have much advice to give, but it sounds like she is being territorial. Your house is her territory and she might feel threatened. At daycare, she doesn't feel like it's hers, so she's happy around other dogs.

How long have you had sparky? I assume no longer than 2 weeks. She probably just needs more time to adjust and come around.

As far as correcting her, I'm not sure how to do that.

Good luck! I hope she comes around.
 
the snapping at him is very normal. it will take some time but they'll work it out. eventually she'll realize hes not going anywheres he's there to stay and she'll want to play with him.just make sure if the two of them are together in the same room u have them within ur eyesight to monitor them. i just went threw this with my two and now there the best of friends. and then i had to go threw it when we brought my 8 month old male sheltie up to my parents house so they can see them and he could meet there 5 yr old female sheltie. she was not happy at first, i was especially worried when she was snapping at him cause shes known to be very aggressive and in that house shes the alpha. but it didnt even take a day for her to come around and wanna play with him. so just give it some time very very rarely does it not work out.
 
Yep the yelp is telling the big dog he gets it, probably rolls over on this back at the same time.

Oh and Dow used to bark and run in his sleep. Not loud or fast but you could see he was dream chasing.
 
Well I'm sure it is a territorial thing,and things should settle between them. When Lady snaps or growls,what is Sparkys reaction? does he lay down,and roll part way over?

He will learn I'm sure that she is alpha,soon enough,and him being submissive to her,will come.The yelping is Sparkys way of saying..ok I get it!

We see it here on a daily basis with Trapp & Earnhardt. Although minus the snapping or growling,just the submissive behavior from Trapp. He even will step aside and let Earnhardt go first in or out the door. It's very obvious,he considers Earnie alpha. If Sparky has had some good socialization skills instilled from mom during his last few weeks with her & his siblings,and good breeder methods,he will do just fine.

I don't think I would leave them out of eye shot,until you see some sort of give & take on both parts.

They'll be playing in no time,once the "lady" of the house figures out Sparky isn't going any wheres.

Congrats on the new pup!!
 
Having just gotten a 8 week old puppy two weeks ago and having a 13 year old Sheltie at home I know where you are coming from. We had another Sheltie Katie that died of cancer in April and we decided this time to get a boy. Mainly because Maggie can be very alpha and when we brought Katie home she was NOT a happy girl at all. She was a 7 then and it took her a good 2 weeks before she seemed like it was okay.She would see me playing with Katie and leave the room. But we had problems of jealousy and issues over food off and on.
This time around Maggie is so much better. I can play with Zak with her laying next to me and she does give him corrections and I have only had to get on to her once. We also have to know not to be holding her and have Zak approach that in her world is a no- no and we have to respect her too. I do feed her first greet her first and she sleeps with us so she gets loving first thing in the morning. Zak seems to know his boundry's with her and does not push to much. When she corrects him sits very quickly. IT is an adventure that you will enjoy when they get past this first stage.
 
It's all pretty normal. This insolent little pup is in HER space, but once she sets the rules, things should work out fine. Make sure that each pup gets quality time with you, and make sure that Lady has her own dishes, etc.

It might take a couple of week until things settle down. Do not leave them alone together until then.

Good luck and congrats on your new addition!
 
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