Some stories are hard to tell but sometimes things have a way of working out for the best.
Since my wife and I married, we have welcomed five dogs into our family. The first was an Australian Shepherd who we adopted out of a pet store, against all advice and our knowledge of the damage poor socialization can cause. My only defense is that he cried when we walked by his cage. I'm a sucker for sad animals. Buddy was quite shy and frightened at first but blossomed one day while we house sat for my parents. They had a yard and I had him sit and tossed a frisbee his way. He caught it and never looked back. He played every day of his sixteen years with us.
When Buddy passed we looked around for another smart breed and found a local breeder of Standard Poodles. I had read how smart they were and they were non-shedding to top it off. Little did I know just how many hours we'd spend with a grooming table and a kit of scissors, sprays and clippers. As it turned out we adopted Carter, a lovely apricot with a sense of humor and the very best of dispositions, loving, kind and friendly to everyone and every creature. He was with us only ten years before dying of a stroke.
When Carter was five, he was getting a bit chubby, so I thought bringing another standard in would get him moving a bit more and help him trim out. That didn't really work out and Niko, a silver standard, only felt truly happy with family. He had to be watched around anyone else. Mainly he was terrific and devoted to me. The interactions between the boys were never unpleasant, mainly because Carter was way smarter than Niko. If Niko was on the couch resting his head on my lap, Carter would head to the toy box and haul out Niko's favorite toys and walk back and forth in front of the couch until Niko leaped down to take it and Carter would hop up, put his head in my lap and sigh happily.
Niko started sliding downhill as he approached ten. He became afraid of the dark, afraid of loud sounds and suspicious of strangers, and also unpredictable with all family except me. My wife was headed in for major surgery and so we made the difficult decision to put him to sleep before a tragedy forced us to do so.
After a period of grieving, we started looking for another standard. We met with a breeder and we were matched by the breeder with what turned out to be a shy and easily scared black poodle puppy. We had expressed concerns over his apparent reluctance prior to taking him home but were verbally reassured that he was just fine and just over-attached to the breeder. Well, to make a long sad story, shorter. When Loki didn't adapt and stayed fearful of everyone, including my sons, growling at them and running after them when they turned their backs, I returned him to the breeder and gave away all my dog crates, grooming equipment and all dog stuff with a resolution to never get another dog that could turn into a fear biiter and I was heartbroken, but I wasn't going to try and manage through another fear-filled dog.
Time passed. I retired and spent my days alone. The desire for another companion was strong so I started browsing the web and looking at which breeds were scoring high in obedience and other competitions and found Shelties doing well across the board. After some discussions with my wife, we started looking for a Sheltie breeder. Her kennel had over 150 champion dogs here in Canada and she was thoughtful and very accomodating when I said all we wanted was a stable, happy disposition. Colour and sex meant nothing to us. Shelties are small and easy to handle, something my wife wanted, and a quarter of the grooming compared to a poodle. And, so, little Willow came into our family and has happily ruled the house since she got here.
First day home:
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