Thanks for all the kind thoughts!
This is kind of like my blog

But really, this whole thing has been so much more time consuming than I would have thought and the vets do not really tell you what you are in for. Its like they assume since they know how things are supposed to go that you will to. I hope it is helpful for people who are considering radiation or are just starting. If you know how much time this is going to take before, it is easier to line things up and plan. Once you are in it, all you can do is react. This whole journey started in October with a biopsy, followed by 2 surgeries and now radiation. I have learned so much.
1. Vet's do not examine your dog for lumps and bumps at any stage and offer an opinion on aspiration, they merely aspirate what you tell them to. I brought Gavin in for 2 bumps. One was needle aspirated. The second one I could not find after a few minutes for looking and it was forgotten after the vet expressed concern about the first bump. My dog was handled by many vets and techs on the way through his first surgery and none every did an exam of him and mentioned the second lump. I finally found it again (it was tiny, like a bug bite) and had them aspirate it: another surgery! It would have been much preferred and cheaper to have both done at the same time.
2. Radiation is a lot more complicated than it sounds when they tell you it is the best treatment. I can totally understand why people would board their dog through it and for a few weeks after when the burns are the worst. I have it relatively easy in that the radiation clinic is on my way to work and only out of the way about 15 minutes. But adding in traffic complications due to the times I have to drop him off and pick him up, and waiting for a tech to get him/bring him out we are talking about an extra 60-90 minutes each day. These baths for the burns take me at least 45 minutes each time, and they want it done twice a day (and I had no idea this was even something that was going to be needed until the vet tech tells me about the soak packets, cornstarch and aloe Thursday afternoon. I had to run out to walmart and get constarch and floor coverings..they did sell me the aloe and soak packets at only a 50-70% markup which is pretty good. but If i had known, I could have bought the stuff much cheaper on amazon and been prepared mentally and physically). The medications and their dosages/timings are not simple either. I have a whole different respect for caregivers and how really limited their lives are: everything revolves around treatments and medications; I might have a 4 hour window on a weekend to get out and do something and I have to choose between chores like grocery shopping, trying to work out, taking a shower, laundry, cooking, etc. Makes you housebound and your world becomes pretty small and limited.
I don't want to sound like I am complaining...Gavin is doing great. Although he did for the first time start licking his radiation burn site

He got out of his cone last night and went at it. Thankfully it didn't look oozie at all. I would guess the cornstarch makes it even more appetizing. Then this morning after soaking it and all, I saw him try to start at it again (I literally saw the tongue come out of his mouth and his head moved to his leg). I normally have him un-coned when I am watching him as he mostly sleeps due to all the meds, but we are upping the cone time and making sure it is tied on TIGHT.