Lexi, you are making your mother very frustrated! I agree that we take crating harder than our dogs do. They LIKE having a safe den. Remember you're doing it for her health as much as your sanity, she could easily eat something dangerous whilst chewing.
My old foster was a holy terror and was crated or at puppy daycare any time we couldn't supervise her. (She'd tear the books off the shelf and chew them up, figure out how to open my closet and eat the shoes, get into the laundry basket, etc.) I felt terrible that I had to crate her at night, but she obviously slept very well once she got used to it. Lots of exercise, lots of healthy chewing distractions - maybe a bone she could lick/gnaw to work her jaws? B
2 is still a puppy in a lot of ways. Maybe I missed it but do you have a room that's easier to dog proof? My family dog is 14 and she still gets babygated into the kitchen area when no one is home to prevent her deciding the rugs are good places to pee. She just naps. She was about 2 or 3 when we started using the kitchen as a crate instead of an actual crate. Beau is about 7 and we don't even own a crate (...yet, I know we need to get on that.) We've had a few accidents but no obnoxious chewing.